IT IS NOT YOUR 'FAULT'
If something "bad" happens to you please don't make the connection that somehow you "are bad". This is simply not true. Everything in your physical reality matches your energetic reality. Period.

So, if something in your life isn't how you want it then it is just FEEDBACK. You can then use this information to change something on the inside. Usually the thing that needs changing is a limiting belief about yourself. Your circumstance merely paint a very accurate picture of exactly what beliefs you hold about yourself. If you don't like what you see then you must explore, challenge and ultimately change this belief about yourself. It's not as easy as it sounds but it is SO worth it.